Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Who Dat, say who dat, when I say who dat?

Who dat was something I heard around the home as a joke. I knew it came from some Negro radio or Vaudeville show. It was funny when you heard two black comedians doing the routine. Still today the saying has been picked up by the fans of the Saints. I know there are some that say it is yet another example of poor English and it represents the poor living in the poorest areas in America, New Orleans.

That is correct, but it is funny to hear and it apparently became a good battle cry for the Saint fans. If you're going to have a battle, you need a song or battle cry to rouse the troops. So Who Dat is it for now and Congratulations to the Saints.

I never really follow sports, but I always watch the Super Bowl as it is to be the best two teams. My only disappointment is when there is a run away game. This past Sunday it was a good game and I did not care who won. I would prefer to be an owner than a player or fan. Since I don't buy sports memorabilia, I think this is one group I am not sending my money to.  I can't avoid the government, the utilities and food stores, but I believe I am the winner in this game. I get to watch and don't pay. Well I do have Dish, so there maybe something that goes to the teams from the networks, etc. which I know they make up for in ad revenue, but I don't buy  that stuff.

Speaking of ad revenue, the commercials are the best I especially liked the one with Betty White. I have been a fan of hers since the Mary Tyler Moore days. She was always coming onto Ed ??? the director of the show.
I had a chance to meet her at a dinner for the Atlanta Zoo. She is a big supported of animal care.
She has always had a sharp wit in her characters.

Let's give it up for the Saints and Betty White. Oh, Doritos had a couple of good ones too.  I liked the babies of the past for E*Trade.

On my employment front, I had a lunch with a director of  a large university's executive search team. Great guy, very sharp and down to earth. I hope that relationship will lead to a new position.

Anyone won a lottery yet or got a new job recently. How you get the job or how much did you win?

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Taxes, Taxes, Taxes

This is the weekend I planned on doing my taxes and from the looks of how long the server is taking for me to get information onto Turbo Tax, everyone else is trying to do the same.

I have been using Turbo Tax form years and Quicken even longer. I first started using the Intuit products in the early 1980s. I liked it because I could see where my money was going almost in real time, but as soon as the bank saw it. This was because I worked with Dean Witter as an investment broker and they allowed us to sign onto the sever that processed the checks and debit card transactions.

Anyway I'll keep trying to get on tonight and see if it works. Try it is FREE!!

Friday, February 5, 2010

Back from NC and staying with my Dad

I mentioned earlier that I was spending some time taking care of my father as he recuperated from some minor surgery. First let me again mentions he is 90 years old.  I always find him interesting, yet he has always been a handful to speak with. I guess many folks could say that about their parents, but when I am with my Dad he doesn't really listen, he talks...rather teaches or preaches what he believes to be the truth. If you don't agree with him, well you are not that smart.

My Father is a smart man. At 90 he has his own web site where he writes stories of his own creation, stories of his childhood and also his beliefs that there is a conspiracy of Zionist controlling everything.  I always listen and even if I don't debate him on his issues, he will go all over the map with his discussions. Many times believing I am ready to rebut him at every turn. The longest I listened this past week was 2 hours and twenty minutes. I finally had to pee so I excused my self from the room, which will usually give him time to relax or regroup on an other rant. Like I said I love him and I am trying to understand his need to constantly focus on the same issues of his poor marriage, lack of trust in all his children's intelligence...each of us has some issue that he can focus on and show how we are not as perfect as he is. At least that is the way is sounds.

My sister for example, changed her report card when she was in high school, so her grades would not be seen by him. Of course at some point a letter from a teacher made it home and there was some real disappointment in  her from him. He has never forgiven her for this and to this day does not trust her. She also thinks he doesn't know what he is doing  in life either, so they don't even talk to each other any more.

I on the other hand have caused all my problems in life. My divorce, loss of my children from the divorce and a variety of other aspects of my life. I see it as life. We make decisions and there are consequences, we live with them and grow from them. I have learned to cope with the difficulties in life and my mistakes, I don't blame them on anyone else.

There is a difference between my Dad and me. He believes all his problems in life have been others faults, his failures are because of his wife or children or some Jew he had to work for. For a week I listened and am still confused as to how to offer a way for my Dad to be happy. He isn't happy and he never has been. I don't say that lightly, he really hasn't been happy during his life and I don't know what makes a person feel that way.  I read somewhere that a traumatic childhood will cause this behavior.

My Dad lost his father when he was 7 years old and his mother had MS all of his life. Obviously this would have an impact on anyone's life, but for me to mention this to him and suggest that he can or could have worked through this years ago, would be responded to with an attitude that I am just stupid or that I don't understand a GD thing and none of us kids do.  He also points out quite often that "my generation" is really lost on what is important in the world and have bought into the propaganda of the Jews and Zionists. Of course, at this point I am always lost for words because I don't know how to combat a paranoid mind.

Please don't misunderstand my comments here. I love my Dad and I wish I could offer him an answer that he could digest and he would realize that the past week his oldest son, unemployed for over six months, given a rental car and money  by my brother in law to survive for the week stayed in his small apartment on the couch to be sure he was in good health. This is the important time, I think in one's life, good times. It doesn't make sense to me to worry or preach about the Zionists controlling everything. I like to tell him, I think that he and I eating lunch together is "important!"  But it falls on deaf ears.

I want to point out, Dad gave me money when I left, something I didn't want to accept, but I knew I didn't have the funds for gas to get home or pay for the groceries I bought for him.  He has a good heart and a good mind, he has some real anger issues, that I have no expertize to help him cope with in life.

( I am posting this without a proof read, because I am exhausted and I'll edit later)

  I love you Dad!!

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